Expectations are the most beautiful feeling to be experienced in this world. This word actually describes the feeling of a person in a very true sense. This feeling comes from heart without any dilution.
Expectations is into everything even where there is no air there is no expectations. We have a nature to expect for anything we see, we use, we feel, we have. From a very small salt particle which we expect can change the taste of our food to our parents who can change our lives. This feeling is full of emotion but hurtful too.
On our daily basis we expect things and even though we know that the things are not same as we see. For example it’s just like earth feels flat yet it is round and expectations is all about this. You fall for what you see but you get hurt because it was not the way you expected it to be for, and the there is one beautiful thing about fact that is “IT NEVER CHANGES “.
Past few days of my life made me realize the importance of this word or I must say not the importance but the actual meaning of it. It all started with other expecting things from you and you putting every inch of your efforts to fulfill it and this is the true meaning and a true justification of this word but the fact is what we see is not always right but what happens is the true thing rather a fact. Doing everything to make your loved once feel happy by doing thing the way they expected but in return when you expect the same you will never get satisfied. But wait this is not the end because if this is the end then things are still fine but my dear friend let’s look into the real life and it can never have a happy ending because happy endings are rare. In return you get a bag full of tears, sadness, guilt and what not.
“I TOLD YOU NEVER EXPECT THINGS FROM ME BECAUSE EXPECTIONS ALWAYS HURTS…AND IF YOU CAN NOT THEN FIND SOMEONE ELSE BECAUSE I AM NOT THE ONE YOU DESERVE”.
This one line every one of you must have heard in your life irrespective of the situation or circumstances because we all go through the same face at least once in a lifetime. This exact line evaluates the complete situation many times in my life which made me share this piece of thing with you all.
You must have heard people saying in which I strongly believe in that
“NO MATTER WHAT THE SITUATION IS NEVER FORGET THE ONE WHO SUPPORTED YOU THE FIRST TIME, NEVER FORGET THE ONE WHO GUIDED YOU FOR FIRST TIME, AND NEVER FORGET THE ONE WHO TAUGHT YOU FOR THE FIRST TIME.”
We might take things in wrong way just because the situation was not is our favor but remember one thing the one who hurt you for the same also taught you how to fight with it and this all happens because of EXPECTATIONS.
Hope you all can relate with what I wanted to share. There is nothing personal but every word I came out of heart. So guys this was my first topic to get started. A lot more are lined up. So keeping supporting and let me know your review so that even I can improve.